December 30, 2011

Searching for live entertainment or a DJ for your rehearsal dinner?  Or wedding reception?  Or pool party?
Would you like to find a string quartet for your outdoor wedding ceremony?

Please consider . .
Jay Goodley Entertainment, Inc
238 West Venice Avenue
Venice Center Mall
Venice, FL   34285

Phone 941-480-9600
E-mail:  Jay@jaygoodley.com
Website:  http://www.jaygoodley.com

Jay Goodley is a member of Weddings of Venice.

December 29, 2011

Here's one of the Ten Best Budget Friendly Honeymoon, Destination Wedding and Family Resorts.

Great Wolf Lodge Williamsburg
Located just three miles from Colonial Williamsburg, Great Wolf Lodge Williamsburg offers families the ability to mix a healthy dose of culture with a giant dose of fun.  If you nieces, nephews, and cousins aren't keen on the idea of period clothing and the Revolutionary War, then this resort's recreational area should get their attention.  This property has been ranked first for "Top 10 Best Pools in the US" by Trip Advisor.

What makes it a deal?  The indoor water park.  If your family members are into them, this one is well worth every penny.  The resort has a 300,000 gallon indoor water park with eight waterslides, a wave pool, lazy-river, pool for basketball, Flowrider surf pool and the highlight of the property:  The Howlin Tornado, which sends four-person rafts down a six-story funnel and spits them out into an exit pool.  And, of course, with the Williamsburg location, you're getting two vacations for the price of one - that is, if you can manage to pull the relatives away from the waterpark.

From the http://www.familyvacationcritic.com/

December 28, 2011

A fresh new day,
and it is ours,
a day of happy beginnings.

December 27, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .

Do we both have to exchange wedding rings?  How do we handle just one wedding ring exchange during the ceremony?

Response . .

You do not have to exchange wedding rings, it is not a requirement, it is your choice, your option.  In regards to only one person wishing to receive a ring during the ceremony, this detail should be brought to the attention of your officiant  (at a pre-wedding meeting) so he or she can make the appropriate adjustment in the ceremony wording.

December 24, 2011

A fresh new day,
and it is ours,
a day of happy beginnings.

December 21, 2011

21 Things you Should Never Buy NEW

DVDs and CDs
Books
Video Games
Special Occasion and Holiday Clothing . . Sometimes you'll need to buy formal clothing for special occasions, such as weddings or the prom.  Most people will take good care of formal clothing but will only wear it once or twice.  Their closet cast outs are YOUR savings.  Thrift stores, yard sales, online sellers and even some dress shops offer fantastic buys on used formal wear.
Jewelry
IKEA Furniture (check Craig's List or Freecycle)
Maternity and Baby Clothes
Musical Instruments
Pets
Home Accent
Craft Supplies
Houses . . You'll be able to get better and more features for your dollar when you purchase an older home rather than building a new house.
Office Furniture
Cars . .  You save money on both the initial cost and auto insurance.
Hand Tools
Sports Equipment
Consumer Electronics
Garden Supplies
Timeshares
Recreational Items
Games and Toys

From Lynn Truong . . finance.yahoo.com/news

December 20, 2011

Looking for a quaint chapel?  Looking for a venue that will ring a bell as you are pronounced Husband and Wife?  Looking for an historic site for your wedding or renewal of vows ceremony?

Please consider Old Florida on the Bay-Historic Spanish Point . .

333 North Tamiami Trail
Osprey, FL
Contact Gilly Francis at 941-468-0611

E-Mail:  Gilly@oldfloridaweddings.com
Website:  http://wwwoldfloridaweddings.com

December 19, 2011

Staying "on budget" makes paying the wedding expenses a lot easier. One out of three couples do not stay on budget, matter of fact, they exceed their budget substantially because they did not do their homework or research before they created a budget.

Did you go over budget?  By how much?

December 18, 2011

Need a Disc Jockey?  Or a photographer?  Or a live band?  Or a chuppah?

Please consider First Class Events (a full service entertainment and events company)
710 Tarpon Avenue
Sarasota, FL

Contact David or Mike Brown
Phone 941-955-4900
http://www.FCEnow.com
DBrown@FCEnow.com

December 17, 2011

Why Toss the Bride's Bouquet?

Traditionally, the woman catching the bouquet will be the next to wed.

December 16, 2011

Two hearts that beat as one . . .

December 15, 2011

Question . .
We want a "small, intimate wedding."  How many people are involved in a small wedding?

Response . .
There are two interpretations to this question.  I personally feel, a small wedding has less than fifty invited guests.  And it can also mean that the wedding party has only four or five members (the Bride, the Groom, a Maid of Honor, the Best Man, and a Flower Girl or Ring Bearer).  Your wedding party should be in balance with your guest list which means you should NOT have six bridesmaids and six groomsmen and only invite twenty guests.

December 14, 2011

Need a gift for that bridesmaid or special friend who pampers herself?  Please consider Monogrammed Soaps.  As elegantly engraved as fine stationery, these soaps come in four delicious scents:  pomegranate, green tea, bamboo birch, and freesia.  Designer Collection, $13 each.  These beautiful soaps can be purchased from carvedsolutions.com.  Who wouldn't want their own personal soaps?

December 13, 2011

Need a picturesque venue for your outdoor ceremony?  Or rehearsal dinner?  Or bridal shower?
Do you need a dance floor for your very special "first dance" routine?

Please consider the Mission Valley Country Club
1851 Mission Valley Boulevard
Nokomis, FL

Contact Stacy Brown at 941-488-9683
SBrown@missionvalleycc.com
http://www.missionvalleycc.com/

December 12, 2011

Would you buy a wedding gown at the $99 sale if you had to spend almost $200 in alterations to get the look you want?

December 11, 2011

Need a disc jockey for your engagement party?  Wedding reception?  Renewal of vows party?

Please consider contacting . .

Black Tie DJs
8506 Sandy Oak Lane
Sarasota, FL

Phone:  941-925-5944
E-mail:  Blacktiedjds@verizon.net
Website:  http://www.sarasotadj.com

December 10, 2011

Here's another one of the ten  Best Budget Honeymoon and Family Friendly Resorts  . .

Si Como No which is located in the Province of Puntarenas in Costa Rica.  Eco-friendly Si Como No's sixty rooms are surrounded by jungle and sea.  The property is secluded enough to feel like you are a million miles away from civilization, yet there are ample amenities and activities to make it entertaining for children, young adults and adults.  There are two restaurants, two pools (one family pool with a water slide), a small movie theater and wireless Internet on the property.

What makes it a deal?
The room rates at Si Como No are surprisingly affordable given its spectacular location, and it also includes a complimentary breakfast buffet, free shuttle to nearby Manuel Antonio National Park and free passes to the Butterfly Botanical Gardens at Fincas Naturales Wildlife Refuge across the street.  But perhaps, most importantly, you'll feel good knowing your money was well spent.  The owners of Si Como No is renown for his efforts to help preserve the rain forest.

Information provided by www.familyvacationcritic.com

December 9, 2011

The promise of our life together is as bright as the colors of the rainbow.

December 8, 2011

What is a Groom's Cake?

A Groom's Cake is still a popular custom or tradition in the South.  It is a separate entity from the wedding cake.  It can be served at the rehearsal dinner or as a second choice at the wedding reception.  It usually features the favorite flavors of the Groom and the Groom's hobbies or interests or school affiliation.  It's considered "a fun cake,"  I know of many Brides and Grooms who order the traditional yellow pound cake for their wedding cake and a chocolate raspberry cake for their Groom's cake.

December 7, 2011

Fine wines at wedding receptions and rehearsal dinners are a new trend worth toasting.  If your wine know-how has consisted of ordering house cabs an pinots until now, definitely find an expert to help you pull this off with style.

Who you gonna call??????      A wine consultant.  Bring your rehearsal or reception dinner menu to your favorite wine shop and work with a connoisseur who can help you pair wines with the food you have selected.  Heather Brown, an independent wine consultant with "Unique Wine Cellar" recommends selecting at least two whites and two reds so you'll appeal to your guests' broad palette.  Order your wine at least four weeks prior to your event.  A fun finishing touch is to personalize your wine bottles!  Many wine shops, including those online, are offering custom labels - some allow you to upload a photo of you and your man or work from one of several predesigned labels and just add a personal message.  A personal wine bottle also makes a great "Thank You" gift for guests.

from shop.getmarried.com

December 6, 2011

Looking for a venue with a picturesque outdoor setting for your ceremony?  Need a place for your Morning After Breakfast or Bridesmaids Tea or Rehearsal Dinner?

Please consider Jacaranda West Country Club
1901 Jacaranda Boulevard
Venice, FL

E-mail:  Membership@jacwestcc.com
Website:  http://www.jacwestcc.com
Phone:  941-474-2614

December 5, 2011

How much input or influence should the Bride and Groom's parents have if the Bride and Groom are paying for their entire wedding?

December 4, 2011

Need a facility for your out-of-town wedding guests?

Please consider the Best Western Plus Ambassador Suites Venice
400 Commercial Court
Venice, FL

Phone 941-480-9898
Ask for Maryanne Henry
Website:  bwambassadorsuites.comcast.net

December 3, 2011

Why Throw a Garter?

The garter is said to be a substitute for the ribbon which the lady presented her champion knight of King Arthur's Round Table who gallantly carried her colors into battle.  The Order of the Garter was formed in England in the fourteenth century, as an honor given to distinguished noblemen who to this day wear a heraldic garter as part of their ceremonial garb.  Nowadays, the garter is tossed to the single men at the reception, the recipient, according to myth, will be the next to marry.

December 2, 2011

Love fills the moment,
and the moment begins eternity.
Love fills a lifetime,
and a lifetime begins this hour.

December 1, 2011

Question from a Groom . .

Does the ushers, the groomsmen and the fathers have to wear the same style of suit or outfit as me?

Response . .

In a ultra formal wedding, yes . .   in a formal wedding, yes . . in a semi-formal wedding, yes . . but not in a casual or informal wedding.   Everyone should dress "on the same level of formality."  If the Groom is wearing a tuxedo, then everyone should wear a tuxedo.  Think about your photographs, wouldn't it look nicer if everyone was "all dressed up."

November 30, 2011

Surcharge for paying the checked baggage fee at the airport . .

The cost:  $2 to $5 each way.

Why you're being charged:  The regular $15 to $35 check bag fee was bad enough.  Now, in an attempt to boost profits and reduce airport lines, most major air carriers, are also charging extra if you pay checked baggage fees curbside or at a ticket counter or a kiosk.  So, before leaving home, be sure to prepay the fee at the airline's website, then print your e-ticket.

November 29, 2011

Looking for a venue where you can have a wedding ceremony, a reception and overnight lodging?  This facility also offers a coffee and pastry shop plus a full service restaurant.

Please consider the Bentley's Resort Hotel
1660 South Tamiami Trail
Osprey, FL 34229

Website:  http://www.bentleyssarasota.com
E-mail:  Renata@bentleyssarasota.com
Contact: Renata Sek at 941-966-2121 X301

November 28, 2011

Do YOU, the Bride and Groom, think it is Okay for your guests to wear anything they want to your traditional ceremony and reception?  Or do you prefer that they get "all dressed up" as you have.

November 27, 2011

Do you need "lots of rooms" for your out of town wedding guests? 

Please consider the Fairfield Inn & Suites by Marriott
2935 Executive Drive
Venice, FL 34292

Phone:  941-488-4343
http://www.FairfiledInn.com/srqvc
Contact:  Deborah Petty
Deborah.Petty@marriott.com

The newest hotel in Venice featuring 103 smoke free guest rooms and suites, free breakfast, heated pool/spa, 24 hour market pantry, and a fitness/business center.  We are the perfect location for your out of town guests and all reception facilities.  This facility is right off an interstate exit.

November 26, 2011

Here's one of the "Top Ten" Best Budget Friendly Honeymoon, Destination Wedding and Family Resorts

Please consider this location for your honeymoon or destination wedding . . Club Med Yucatan

Club Med's Yucatan 400 rooms and suites sit alongside what is arguably the best beach in Cancun (Mexico).  The wide, mile-long expanse of sandy beach is perfect for families.  Some may remember that prior to the Hurricane Wilma in 2005, the resort was "adults only."  But it reopened in November 2006 after undergoing $20 million in renovations, including the addition of Club Med's signature children's program:  a Mini-Club for ages 4 to 10, Junior Club Med for ages 11 to 13 and Passworld Teen Club for ages 14 to 17. 

What makes is a deal?  Club Med is a GOOD BARGAIN because of the quality of the kids' programming you get for the price.  While you will find other all-inclusive resorts that offer children's programs and might have more luxurious accommodations and more sophisticated dining options, what you get for the price at a Club Med makes it a good choice.  This particular Club Med rates even higher than most on the value scale because of its top-notch beach.

Compliments of http://www.familyvacationcritic.com

November 24, 2011

On our wedding day
A new life has its start
We'll share with each other
Our love, one dream, one heart.

Happy Thanksgiving!

November 23, 2011

Question . . Is it OK to hand deliver some of our wedding invitations, it will save us a lot of money because we won't have to as many stamps.

Response:  Only in a very unique situation, for example:  your Grandmother is in the hospital.  If you plan to give out these invitations at a family gathering or party the answer is No.  If you plan to travel from one house to another the answer is No.  It should never be obvious to your wedding guests that you are cutting corners or being frugal.

November 22, 2011

Good question, good advice . .

When filling out an insurance application, can I stretch the truth about my health?

Magazine by by Kelli Grant . . Fibbing about your medical history may get you better rates on a health or life insurance policy, but it's a choice that could leave you uninsured when you most need coverage, "When people become very sick or have an accident, it's common for insurers to investigate their medical backgrounds," says Larry McNeely, the health-care advocate for the US Public Interest Research Groups, a federation of state consumer-advocacy groups.  "If they discover an error - even one you made by accident, they can rescind your policy."  More likely, insurance companies will flag your symptoms as a preexisting condition, allowing them to deny coverage and raise your premiums."

November 21, 2011

Looking for a place to have your ceremony and/or reception?  Or the rehearsal dinner?

Please consider the Stoneybrook Golf and Country Club of Sarasota
8801 Stoneybrook Boulevard
Sarasota, FL 34238

Phone 941-918-9595
E-mail :  Sbdining4u@stoneybrookgcc.com
Website:  http://www.stoneybrook.net
Contact:  Kathleen Strand

November 20, 2011

What would you do if you just realized, after sending out all the Thank You notes, that the Bride's Aunt and Uncle did not give you a wedding gift . . and neither did the Groom's childhood neighbor . . and neither did one of the Groomsmen.

Would you contact them?  Would you ask one of your parents to contact them?  Or would you just ignore the situation and accept it.

November 19, 2011

Thinking about renting a tent for your outdoor reception but you don't know how many tables will fit inside that tent?  The good people at Rental Depot can show you exactly what the floor plan will look like.

Contact Rental Depot Weddings, Tents, & Events Company
3914 Swift Road
Sarasota, FL 34241

Your contact:  Claudette or Al Giever
Phone:  941-929-9382
E-mail:  Info@arentaldepot.com
Website:  http://www.arentaldepot.com

November 18, 2011

Your honeymoon . .

One of the ten best "budget friendly" resorts . .

Disney's Pop Culture Resort (in Florida) is considered one of Disney's "value resorts."  Located near Epcot Center, this sprawling 2880 room resort has three pools, an arcade, a playground and a large food court.   Pop Century is a little more dated than some of the other Disney properties.

So what does it make if "budget friendly?  The rates are extremely reasonable for a Disney property.  All Disney Resorts offer advantages to staying there over other motels/hotels in the Orlando area . . starting with Magic Hours which allows you to arrive early at the park on certain days and free bus transportation to all Walt Disney World Resort destinations.

November 17, 2011

With an endless love we'll share our thoughts, our dreams, ourselves.

November 16, 2011

A recent question from a Bride  . .

Do I have to like the men that my husband-to-be wants as his Best Man and groomsmen?

Response:  Does your fiance know this?  Have any of these men hurt you physically?  Have any of these men hurt you emotionally?  Will you be uncomfortable if these men are close to you on your wedding day?

November 15, 2011

From the pages of RealSimple.com, the May 2011 issue

Deal Finder . . "Loyal Shopper Programs"

When you say "I do" you, the Bride and Groom, become serious consumers.

If you would rather load up a virtual shopping cart than lug bags around the mall, check out these membership programs offered by leading online merchants.  You pay an annual fee and in return receive benefits, like cheaper shipping and exclusive discounts.

Amazon Prime . . . Amazon.com
Barnes & Noble Member . . . Barnesandnoble.com
Club O Rewards . . . Overstock.com
Shoprunner . . . Shoprunner.com
Williams-Sonoma Reserve . . . Williamssonoma.com

Happy shopping!

November 14, 2011

Need a LARGE venue for your ceremony and/or reception?
Need a small room for your bachelor party?  Or bridal shower?  Or morning after brunch?

Please consider the Venice Nokomis Elks-Van Hoose Banquet Hall and Event Center.

For more information and a tour, contact Lucy or Gary Steinwachs at 941-486-1854

This venue is located at: 1021 Discovery Way
North Venice, FL
which is close to an I-75 exit and entrance.

Famous for their baked ziti, meatballs and macaroon cookies!

E-mail:  Lucys012561@yahoo.com
Website:  http://www.elks.org/lodges/home.cfm?lodgenumber=1854

November 13, 2011

What would you do if you just found out that your partner was married previously right before you applied for a Marriage License?

November 12, 2011

Do you need to rent a chuppah?  Do you need to rent some chairs for your beach ceremony?  Do you need a Master of Ceremonies?  Do you need a DJ?

Contact First Class Events
710 Tarpon Avenue
Sarasota, FL

Phone 941-955-4908
Contact:  Luisa or Mike or David

E-mail:  DBrown@FCEnow.com
Website:  http://www.FCEnow.com

November 10, 2011

Why a Wedding Toast?

As drink goes, wine has always been central to the wedding, even mentioned in the Bible.  The first recorded toast was given at a Saxony feast in 450AD by a woman who became a bride herself before the end of the evening.

A toast should be "short and simple."  If you have written more than one or two sentences IT IS TOO LONG. 

November 9, 2011

With an endless love
We'll share our thoughts,
Our dreams, ourselves

November 8, 2011

Question from a Groom . .

Would it be OK for my Groomsmen to wear just a pair of dark pants and wear a white shirt?

Response . .

No.  When you asked these gentlemen to participate in your wedding you should have informed them that they will either have to rent formal attire or wear something appropriate, and if they cannot afford to do that then you need to know that.   You're supposed to get "all dressed up" for a wedding, wearing just a pair of black slacks and a white shirt is NOT getting "dressed up."

I was once associated with a Groom who had nothing but "poor" male friends and/or relatives.  He let them wear "half of a tuxedo" to the wedding because it was less expensive.  It looked like terrible, and I'm sure their wedding photographs reflected how incomplete the groomsmen looked.

November 7, 2011

Looking for a great "weekender" bag that you can take on an airplane?  Carry on in style with this deluxe weekender bag designed by inventor and organizational expert Lori Greiner.  It has tons of compartments to keep stuff organized, and comes with a toiletry case.  The wheels turn 360 degrees so you can easily maneuver through jam-packed airports.  $65  available in black, leopard, or tiger print.  Go to qvc.com.

Advice . . When you hold a rolling carry-on upright, the bottom of the bag is actually above the wheels, says Laura Kidder, editorial director of Fodor's Travel.  "Put the heaviest items there when packing."

From Woman's Day.com  August 2010

November 6, 2011

Looking for a place to have a ceremony?  Or a bridal shower?  Or a reception?  Or a rehearsal dinner?  Or a morning after brunch?

Please consider the Venice Nokomis Elks - Van Hoose Banquet Hall and Event Center
1021 Discovery Way
North Venice, FL 34275
Contact:  Lucy or Gary Steinwachs
Phone 941-486-1854 or 941-375-8162
E-mail:  Lucys012561@yahoo.com

This is a new building with lots of parking plus there is an in-house catering service.

November 5, 2011

Do you think it is OK to wear a T-shirt, jeans, and flip-flops to a beach wedding?  And would you wear that same outfit to the reception, if the reception was held in a banquet hall?

November 4, 2011

Looking for a designer wedding gown?  Looking for a bridesmaid's dress?
Try The Perfect Dress of Sarasota.

5109 South Tamiami Trail
Sarasota, FL 34231
Phone:  941-925-5888
http://www.theperfectweddingdress.com/

Owned by Kristi Dole who also owns Something Blue Bridal Boutique in Bradenton.  Both bridal shops are members of The Weddings of Venice.  Samples and information about both stores will be seen at the many bridal shows scheduled for the fall and winter in the Sarasota area.

November 3, 2011

Toasting the Bride and Groom with Champagne . .

Champagne (or sparkling wine) on a budget:  Neither of the following two sparklers is technically Champagne because neither is made in the Champagne region of France.  Nonetheless, each of these beverages delivers a lot of bubbles for the buck.    Paul Cheneau Brut Blanc De Blancs (about $8) may have a French name, but this effusive nonvintage cava is from Spain.  1998 Seaview Brut (about $9) from Australia has wonderful flavors.

From the March 2000 Wine & Spirits magazine

November 2, 2011

Each of us a half . . incomplete
Together we are as one.

November 1, 2011

Question from Brides and Grooms . .

Do we have to invite people we don't know to our wedding?

Answer . .

You should never invite anyone to your wedding that you do not know or have not met.  Parents have a tendency to invite their bowling buddies or neighbors or co-workers in order to impress them or pay them back BUT if you don't know those people then cross their names off the guest list.   Your parents can always have an "open house" after the wedding to meet the newlyweds.

October 31, 2011

If you have old magnetic photo albums, remove your photos . . the acid in the glue can cause pictures to deteriorate.  how do you pry them off the stick pages in one piece? 

Slip unwanted dental floss under an edge of the photo, then slowly slide it back and forth all the way down to slice through the glue.
OR
Use a microspatula to carefully pry up the photo.  This tiny metal blade is available at art supply stores or gaylord.com for about $10.

Got lots of engagement, wedding and honeymoon photos?  With shutterfly.com, just select a Simple Path photo book, add pictures from your computer or Facebook albums, pick a theme, add captions and you're done.  Snapfish.com is just as easy to use, and I really like the themes and backgrounds.

October 30, 2011

Need a ceremony and/or reception location?  Looking for a facility where you can host a bridal shower or a rehearsal party or a morning after brunch?

Please consider the Venetian Golf and River Club.
This venue offers you two locations and several rooms or settings.
Golf Club:  105 Pesario Drive, North Venice
River Club:  502 Veneto Boulevard, North Venice

Contact Angella Cisco-Ferreira at 941-441-2276
http://www.venetiangolfandriverclub.com
Angellacferreira@wcicommunities.com

October 29, 2011

Did you feel your parents helped or interfered with your wedding plans?

Do you feel your friends and/or family members helped or interfered with your wedding plans?

October 28, 2011

Need a quick costume for a Halloween wedding?

Try a pink shirt, pink slacks, or a pink dress with a pink feather boa topped off with a big pink hat.  Accessorize with some faux diamonds or rhinestones and fancy shoes.  You are now Diamond Lil!

Grab an old beat-up bathrobe, some fuzzy bedroom slippers, and a faded pair of pajamas.  Put some rollers in your hair and you're good to go.

Put on a black T-shirt, a pair of black slacks or jeans and then go buy a tablet of sticky notes.  Write cute little sayings on the notes.  Everybody will love reading them or you can just walk around and hand them out.

October 27, 2011

Looking for a bridal gown?  A Flower Girl dress?  Or a tuxedo?

Try . . .  Something Blue Bridal Boutique
              3621 Manatee Avenue West, Bradenton, FL   34205

Telephone 941-747-1512 for business hours and location

Knowledgeable personnel and a grand choice of everything bridal!

Something Blue Bridal Boutique is a member of Weddings of Venice.

October 26, 2011

The wedding ring . .
Wedding bands, symbolizing eternal love by their lack of beginning or end, grew out of the ancient tradition of using circlets of grass to decorate a bride's and ankles.  Although not required to validate marriage under a civil law, rings were required in 16th century by the Council of Trent.  The circular shape symbolizes eternity.

Looking for a unique wedding ring (s)?
Meteorite Engagement and/or Wedding Rings can be found at Cross Jewelers, 570 Congress Street, Portland, Maine.  Call 1-800-433-2988

Advertising states . .
A summer's eve, a star-studded night,
a streak of light . . a meteorite
 . . Ancient iron from forever
makes contact with Earth this night.

"We have carefully forged and inlaid a silvery-gray slice from the famous nickle-iron Gibeon Meteorite into your choice of 18K yellow gold or precious platinum."

October 25, 2011

For hearing my thoughts,
Understanding my dreams,
and being by best friend . . .
For filling my life with music.

October 24, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .

Do we have to buy matching wedding bands?

Answer

No, you didn't even have to buy the same metal color.  It's your ring, it's your choice.

October 23, 2011

Here's One of the Ten Best Budget Friendly Honeymoon, Destination Wedding and Family Resorts

Comfort Suites Paradise Island Resort
The Comfort Suites Paradise Island in the Bahamas is the best way to experience the Atlantis Resort and Casino ON A BUDGET.  It is directly adjacent to Atlantis, a few extra steps could save you and/or your friends and family several hundred of dollars.  A nice resort in its own right, the 229 room Comfort Suites has a lovely pool with a swim-up bar, free continental breakfast, an on-site restaurant for breakfast and lunch (which is less expensive than dining at the Atlantis) and a refrigerator in every room. 

What makes it a deal?
The major draw is that you get full access to all the facilities at Atlantis Resort and Casino including the pools, water slides and river rides, spa, Kids Club, Dolphin Cay and Aquaventure.You can also ask for signing privileges at Atlantis restaurants, though you will not have access to the Atlantis meal plans), which means you can spend the entire day at Atlantis and return to your room at the Comfort Suites only to change clothes or sleep.

Compliments of www.familyvacationcritic.com

October 22, 2011

Looking for a picturesque setting for your ceremony and/or reception?

Please consider the Venice Yacht Club, 1330 Tarpon Center Drive, Venice, FL for your ceremony . . reception . . bachelorette party . . rehearsal dinner . . or morning after breakfast.  The banquet area has just been updated and re-modeled.  Your guests can watch the beautiful boats go by as they sip a glass of champagne.

For more information call Nancy Little at 941-488-7708 or E-mail N.little@daystar.net

http://www.veniceyachtclub.com

October 21, 2011

Question of the week . .

Do you think it is OK for a woman to propose marriage to a man if she is tired of waiting for him to propose?  And how long is too long?  Two years?  Five years?

October 20, 2011

I attended the Weddings of Venice October meeting last night, Wednesday, October 19, at the historic Old Florida on the Bay-Spanish Point in Osprey.  We were given a walking tour of the lovely Sunken Garden and the quaint Mary's Chapel.  What a perfect setting for a Renewal of Vows, a baptism or a wedding ceremony.  This location is part of the early 1900's winter estate of entrepreneur and socialite Mrs. Potter Palmer (who was a major influence in the development and establishment of Sarasota County).

October 19, 2011

For those of you who need a Groom's cake OR a dessert for a bridal shower or the rehearsal dinner or the morning after brunch, here's the recipe for the ITALIAN LOVE CAKE

1 (18.25 ounce) Marble or Chocolate Cake Mix
3 eggs
1/3 cup vegetable oil
4 cups ricotta cheese, drained
1 cup granulated sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 (3.5 ounce) package instant chocolate pudding
1 (16 ounce) container non-dairy whipped topping, thawed

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.  Grease and flour a 13x9x2 cake pan.

Prepare cake as per package instructions using 3 eggs and 1/3 cup oil; pour into prepared pan and set aside.

Combine ricotta cheese, sugar and vanilla in a large mixing bowl; mix until thoroughly combined.  Drop in large spoonfuls over cake batter.  Swirl decoratively through the batter with a butter knife.

Bake for one hour or until a wooden pick inserted in the center comes out clean.  Remove from oven; cool down.

Meanwhile, combine chocolate pudding mix and non-dairy whipped topping; beat by hand until smooth, about 3 to 4 minutes.  Frost cake when totally cool.

Refrigerate one hour before serving.

Makes twelve servings.

To drain ricotta cheese, wrap in a double layer of cheesecloth.  Place in a colander and weigh down with a few cans.  Allow to drain over a bowl in the refrigerator for one hour.

October 18, 2011

A birth certificate shows that we were born . .
A death certificate shows that we died . .

But only pictures and writings show that we lived.

October 17, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .

Should I have second thoughts about getting married now that my wedding day is coming?  Does every Bride and Groom wonder if they are doing the right thing?

If you are having SERIOUS second thoughts that could be interpreted as REGRETS than you need some counseling immediately, even if that means postponing your wedding.  Brides and Grooms who are truly looking forward to getting married and starting their own family are secure in their plans.

Octber 16, 2011

Don't know how to break the news to your parents that you just got engaged?

Start with a Sparkling Wine Cooler

1 cup of lemon-lime soda soft drink chilled (sprite, 7-up)
1 cup assorted berries (raspberries, strawberries, blueberries, etc)
1/2 of a 12 oounce can of frozen limeade concentrate, thawed
1/4 cup of fresh mint leaves, torn
1 (750 ml) of bottle sparkling white wine or champagne, chilled.

Combine the first four ingredients in a large pitcher.  If you have a glass pitcher use it because the drink is very eye appealing.  Gently stir in the sparkling wine or champagne.  Serve immediately.

For a non-alcoholic version, substitute 3 (12 ounce) cans of orange flavored sparkling water, chilled, for the sparkling wine or champagne.

October 15, 2011

Are you looking for a ceremony and/or reception site for your Sarasota County wedding or wedding event?  Please consider Pelican Pointe Golf & Country Club for your rehearsal dinner . . reception . . bachelorette party . . or morning after brunch.

Contact Nicole Swanson at 941-496-4653 X223

Pelican Pointe is located at 499 Derbyshire Drive, Venice, FL

E-mail:  Nicole.Swanson@pelicanpointeclub.com
Website:  http://www.pelican.club.com/

October 14, 2011

Question of the week  . .

How would you respond to a wedding guest who asked if they could bring some friends of theirs who are visiting for the weekend to your reception?

Would you say, "It's OK."
Would you say, "It's OK as long as YOU pay for their dinners."
Would you say, "No, we can not afford to do that and we do not have room for any more guests."

And how would you feel if the wedding guest didn't even ask if it was OK to bring along some friends, they just brought them hoping it would be OK.

October 13, 2011

Chinese numerology and Feng Shui for the year 2011.
This year we are going to experience four unusual dates . . 1/1/11  1/11/11 . . 11/1/11 . . and 11/11/11; and that's not all.  take the last two digits of the year that you were born and the age you will be this year and the result will add up to 111 for everyone!

This is the year of MONEY.  Also, this year, October will have five Sundays, five Mondays, and five Saturdays.  This happens only once ever 823 years.  Good luck to you!

October 12, 2011

Why a Wedding Cake?

The tradition of the wedding cake has ancient roots.  The Roman wedding ceremony included a simple cake made from salt, water and wheat flour.  The cake custom may also be connected to the fertility rituals of many cultures.  One custom, similar to that of throwing confetti, involved showering the Bride with many small cakes after the wedding.  Sometimes the cakes were even broken over the Bride's head.  Elaborately decorated wedding cakes date from Victorian times.  The Bride and Groom feed each other a taste of cake to symbolize the sharing of life's bounty.

October 11, 2011

The path that leads to happiness is so narrow that two cannot walk on it, unless they become one.

October 10, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .

What do we need to take to the Marriage License department?

The applicants must apply "in person"  . . and they must bring a driver's license or a passport or a Florida Identification Card.  If either of the applicants were previously married, the date the prior marriage ended by divorce, annulment or death is required.  I strongly suggest bringing two forms of identification, and one of them should be a picture ID.

October 9, 2011

Do you need wedding insurance? 

Wedding protector plan for extreme weather . . sudden illness or death . . bankrupt vendors . . call to military duty . . unemployment . . damaged gifts . . accidents . . alcohol related accidents . . wedding attire . . and unexpected expenses.

http://www.protectmywedding.com

1-888-342-5977

October 8, 2011

Looking for an historic site to get married?  Looking for a quaint chapel?  Please consider Old Florida on the Bay-Historic Spanish Point for your ceremony and/or reception.

This historic property is located at 333 North Tamiami Trail in Osprey, FL (between Venice and Sarasota).  Contact Gillian Francis at 941-468-0611 for more information.

Gilly@oldfloridaweddings.com
http://www.oldfloridaweddings.com

October 7, 2011

Why a wedding reception?

The fact is that marriage feasts have been in existence nearly as long as marriage ceremonies.  The early Greeks held a splendid wedding feast for every couple.    and it was a very special occasion indeed . . because although women were not usually included in other Greek banquets, they were invited to the wedding feasts.

October 6, 2011

"And we shall become one to share all the days of our lives."

And now you know where the name for that soap opera came from.

October 5, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .

There are several people on our guest list who are no longer friends or on speaking terms with other people on our guest list, how do we handle this?  Should we tell all the people involved so they know what to expect?

All parties involved should be informed BEFORE the wedding invitations are mailed out.  If anyone gives you a hard time or creates a problem then don't invite them to the wedding.  Hopefully, all of these people are mature adults who can behave during the ceremony and reception.  Sit them as far apart as possible in the reception dining room.

October 4, 2011

Finally, a Guestbook you'll want to read over and over again!

Rather than a book of autographs likely to be stored away, these non-traditional guestbooks personalize your event and capture guests' memories and heartfelt wishes of your special day.

Each guest at your event will receive their very own guest book page to fill out and share special messages at their leisure.  after your event, simply place the completed pages in one of the many guestbook album designs and enjoy!

You'll smile each time you read your guestbook.  It will be a cherished keepsake to share with family and friends for years to come.

No more boring autographs . . http://www.guestbookstore.com  (from shop.getmarried.com)

October 3, 2011

Do you need a ceremony location?  Or a venue for your rehearsal dinner?  Or your reception?  Or your morning after brunch? 

Please consider Mission Valley Country Club, 1851 Mission Valley Boulevard, Nokomis, FL.  Contact Stacy Brown at 941-488-9683 or SBrown@missionvalleycc.com.  Check out the club's amenities at http://www.missionvalleycc.com

October 2, 2011

Question of the week . .

Would YOU, the Bride and Groom, put yourself in debt to have the wedding of your dreams?

October 1, 2011

Next Weddings of Venice meeting will take place on Wednesday, October 19, 2011 at Old Florida on the Bay-Spanish Point at 6PM.  This will be the first time we have visited this historical site.

September 30, 2011

What is the origin of the rehearsal dinner or party?

Parties were held on the wedding eve to chase away the evil spirits.  The more noise the better!

September 29, 2011

How beautiful is the day that is touched by love.

September 28, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .

One of our grandmothers is giving us her china set as a wedding gift and we are thrilled with this generous gift.  There are about six pieces that are either missing or chipped.  Someone told us that there is a big store down south that carries missing china pieces, do you know the name?

Contact REPLACEMENTS, LTD in Greensboro, NC.  They carry a HUGE inventory of china, crystal, and silver (old and new).  I strongly suggest registering the pattern that you are trying to complete with them via their website http://www.replacements.com/ or by calling them 1-800-737-5223.  Once you register the pattern that you are trying to complete you will get updates on what they have available and the prices.  I have taken a tour of this facility and I was extremely impressed by their knowledge, efficiency, and organization. 

September 27, 2011

For those of you Brides and Groom who are going on your first "adult" trip here's some tipping (or gratuity) advice . .

Airport skycap . .  $1 to $3 per bag.  Large or bulky items (like a golf bag) deserve an extra dollar or two.
Bellhop . .  $1 to $2 per bag.  If your suitcase is on the heavy side or extra large, tip an extra $1.
Food delivery from a restaurant or food business warrants 10 to 15% of the bill before any local taxes.
Hotel housekeeper deserves $2 per night at a "budget" hotel or $3 to $5 per night at a "nice" hotel.
Shuttle bus driver . . $1 to $2 per bag.  Tip this driver if they wait for you or helps you with your luggage or helps you get to your destination quickly.
Valet parking attendant . . $1 to $3 in towns or small cities.  $3 to $5 in large cities.  If you are driving a SUV, then add another $1 or two due to its difficulty in parking.

From Realsimple.com July 2011 issue

September 26, 2011

Thanks to all of those Brides, Groom, wedding party members and parents who stopped by my table at the Southwest Wedding & Event Expo in Punta Gorda, FL yesterday (Sunday, September 25, 2011).

September 16, 2011

Attended a Weddings of Venice meeting on Wednesday, September 14, 2011 at Bentley's Resort Hotel in Osprey.  We were given a tour of the new LUXURIOUS suites at Bentley's after the meeting.  All three room settings that we were shown were impressive.  Applause Applause to Bentley's Resort Hotel for their multi-room, multi-area renovation. 

September 14, 2011

From Kate Sullivan of Nuovo Bride Magazine

"Nothing completes the circle of love more than using recycled paper to post your big day plans.  But what do you need to know before picking up this eco-friendly trend? 

When browsing for planet-pleasing paper.  Jennifer Stambolsky found of EartlyAffair.com (an earth friendly paperie), says, "look for sheets that are 100 percent post-consumer, meaning it has the highest recycled content that you can get."

September 13, 2011

Looking for a location for your wedding and reception that can also serve as a location for a mini family reunion?  Not only can you get married at this beach side location but you can also have all your friends and family members close by.  They even have bicycles and a playground for the children!

Manasota Beach Club
7660 Manasota Key Road
Englewood, FL

Phone:  941-474-2614
Website:  http://www.manasotabeachclub.com
E-mail:  Info@manasotabeachclub.com

September 12, 2011

If someone gave you $25,000 at your engagement party, what would you do with it?  Plan a big, traditional wedding?  Sign up for a simple beach ceremony and a two week honeymoon in Hawaii?  Or put a down payment on a home?  You can only make one choice, no combinations.

September 11, 2011

Looking for a bridal gown?  Or a formal gown for your Mother?  Or a lavender bridesmaid's dress?

Charlotte Bridal Boutique & Formal Wear
Bell Plaza, Suites 6 & 7
2395 Tamiami Trail
Port Charlotte, FL

Telephone:  941-255-1205
E-mail:  charlottebridal@earthlink.net
Website:  http://www.charlottebridal.biz/

September 10, 2011

How did the Bachelor Party or Dinner start?

I dates back to the Spartan Groom, who always invited his close friends to a supper on the eve of his wedding to celebrate and to reminisce about his past.  Traditionally, it was also held to raise money for the bridegroom so he would be able to continue to drink with his buddies after his wife took control of the finances.  Mainly, however, it was a mourning for the passing of the man's bachelor status.

September 9, 2011

In the sweetness of love,
let there be laughter
and in all our tomorrows
the freshness of today.

September 8, 2011

Question from Bride and Groom . .

Do peole get dressed up for weddings at the Court House?

I have seen "anything and everything" at this location.  I have seen Brides and Grooms dressed in T-shirts and sneakers . .  and I have also seen Brides and Grooms wearing long white gowns and tuxedos.  Your wedding day should be "a very special day" in your life, and that's why I encourage Brides and Grooms to get "all dressed up" on this memorable day.  Wearing something special will make you feel special.  And don't forget to order a bouquet for the Bride and a boutonniere for the Groom.

September 7, 2011

Universal Wedding Registry . .

Why bother with multiple bridal registries when you can add all your favorite items from any store in the world to one massive list?

MyRegistry.com provides smartphone apps that allow couples to scan products for the best prices.

Advice . . to avoid gift confusion and duplication only select one specific item from one store.  There is no reason to select the same food processor from three different stores.

September 6, 2011

Looking for a venue with a beautiful view?  Looking for a location for your ceremony or wedding reception?  Or looking for a banquet room that can be used for a bridal shower or rehearsal dinner or morning after brunch?

Contact . .  Jacaranda West Country Club
                  1901 Jacaranda Boulevard
                  Venice, FL

                  http://www.jacwestcc.com/

Jacaranda West Country Club is a member of Weddings of Venice
                                                                       http://wovfl.com/

September 5, 2011

Question of the week . .

If someone gave you $10,000 to "go away to get married" instead of having a hometown traditional wedding with friends and family members (and all the stress that goes with having a "big" wedding) would you go away?

August 4, 2011

Need someone to cater your wedding or rehearsal dinner or shower or morning after brunch?

Contact  . . Frankie's Catering and Pizza
                  1702 South Tamiami Trail
                  Sarasota, FL
                  941-925-5888
                  http://www.frankiespizzasarasota/

September 3, 2011

Ten Wedding Traditions That Are More Popular Now Than Twenty Years Ago

The desire to stand out has made several traditions seem way too staid, stuffy, and impersonal.  Now we pick and choose our traditions, forcing some to disappear while allowing others to have their moment.  Here are some traditions more popular today than they were twenty years ago . .

Father walking the Bride down the aisle
Throwing the bouquet of flowers
Best Man speeches
Bride and Groom cutting the wedding cake
Signing the Guest Book
Party Favors
Bouquet of flowers or corsages for the Mothers of the Bride and Groom
Group photos
Man proposing on one knee

Meanwhile traditions like having a drink before walking down the aisle, asking the Bride's Father for permission to marry, changing into going-away clothes for honeymoons that immediately follow weddings, throwing confetti and decorating cars with "Just Married" signs and carrying Brides over thresholds are nearly extinct.  From shine.yahoo.com

September 2, 2011

The love we share today shines from sunrise to sunrise, growing brighter year to year as we share our lives.

September 1, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .

Is it OK to hand deliver Thank You notes (from a recent bridal shower) and wedding invitations at a family reunion?  We certainly could save some money by not having to buy a lot of stamps plus there are several addresses we do not have.

Answer . . No, it is not OK to hand deliver notes and/or invitations BUT it is a good time to obtain the correct addresses that you need. 

August 31, 2011

A great idea from Mirassou Vineyards . .

Purchase a 3 liter or larger bottle of red wine and ask your wedding guests to sign the bottle when they arrive at the reception.  Then, when you celebrate your 10 year anniversary, you can invite many friends and family members over and enjoy not only a well-aged wine, but reminisce about your wedding day.

August 30, 2011

Need a wedding cake?  Are you thinking about serving mini cupcakes at the bridal shower or the rehearsal dinner or the morning after brunch?

Contact Dee Baker at DeeZiner Cakes and Pastries
807 US 41 Bypass, Suite B
Venice, FL 34285

Phone:  941-716-4196
Website:  www.deezinercakes.com
E-mail:  Deezinercakes@hotmail.com

Dee Baker was the winner of the "Best Booth Contest" at the Weddings of Venice June 5, 2011 Bridal Show . . "That's Amore!"

DeeZiner Cakes and Pastries is a member of the Weddings of Venice  (www.wovfl.com) networking group

August 29, 2011

Why the Wedding Kiss?

Part of the ceremony since Roman times when it was the only legal bond - if one of the engaged pair died before the wedding, the other could keep the gifts only if they had already kissed. 

The wedding kiss is a symbol of the newlywed's faith and love, respect and obedience to mutual benefits, it grew out of the feudal practice of kissing a lord's ring.

August 28, 2011

The miracle of love is that love is given to us to give to one another . .

August 27, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .

Did we have to have an equal number of bridesmaids and groomsmen?

No.  No one is going to arrest you if your wedding party is uneven.  You do what words for you.

Just recently I was associated with a Bride and Groom who had a Matron of Honor, a Maid of Honor, three bridesmaids and twin Flower Girls.  Only a Ring Bearer stood next to the Groom because the Best Man had to cancel out a week before the wedding and there no groomsmen asked.

August 26, 2011

Looking for someplace to have your wedding?  Reception?  Lodging for your out of town guests?

Bentley's Resort Hotel.
The perfect location for your wedding . .

Ceremonies can be conducted inside or outside.
A variety of  rooms that can accommodate a  reception, a shower, a rehearsal dinner or party, a tea party or a mini family reunion.
Dance floor and nightclub so you can dance the night away.
Beach and pool complex for children of all ages.
Now a 4 STAR hotel with luxurious accommodations with 100+ rooms, including a bridal suite.
A Seattle's Best Coffee shop.
A great in-house restaurant.

1660 South Tamiami Trail, Osprey, Florida 34299
www.bentleysresort.com
941-966-2121

August 25, 2011

Have you ever attended a wedding reception where the food and/or service and/or beverages were inferior or less than desirable?

Did you tell the host and hostess?  That evening?  Several weeks later?  Ever?

August 24, 2011

According to a recent poll 43 percent of Brides and Grooms are paying for their own wedding.  And here's a couple of reasons why . .

They prefer planning, organizing and hosting their own event.

The can afford to pay for their own wedding and reception.

They do not have to have a traditional wedding if they don't want one.

August 23, 2011

Mark your calendar . .

The Wedding  Village Bridal Show
Sarasota Municipal Auditorium
Sunday, November 20, 2011
12 Noon to 4PM

Featuring only the top wedding professionals in the area!  Fashion show at Noon.  Live entertainment, hair and make-up demonstrations, samples engagement photos, signature cocktails and tastings.

The Bride and Groom are FREE, guests $5

August 22, 2011

Wine Gift Registry . .
Create a wish list at the popular WineEnthusiast.com and fill it with everything from stemware, corkscrews and accessories to selections fro The Wine Enthusiast Catalog's wine cellars.  Most items are available gift wrapped.  Wine Enthusiast also offers a toll-free number to assist gift givers.

August 20, 2011

A toast to the Bride and Groom . .

There is no need to spend $40 on a house brand of champagne or sparkling wine if your wedding guest count is more then ten people.  Consider using a prosecco or Spanish Cava for $10 or $12 per bottle.

What would you rather do, buy 20 bottles of a $40 champagne or 20 bottles of a $12 bottle of prosecco?

August 18, 2011

The wedding toast . .
The toast, well done, is a reflection of the past . .
the present . .
and the future.

A toast should be less than five (5) minutes long and it should not be read verbatim (although having have a note card or index card for reference or review is a good idea).

A good toast is positive, upbeat and communicated with the passion that brought everyone to this moment (the wedding reception).

August 17, 2011

Trying to get "in shape" for your wedding day?  Trying to eat healthy?

Think salads for lunch and dinner.  The Salad Blaster Bowl can keep you on track.  The domed lid holds 2 ounces of dressing; press it down and it spritzes your greens and fresh vegetables.  The premeasured amount means you'll use less dressing . . and save calories.  Can be found at the containerstore.com.

August 16, 2011

If there was a gift designed for the Groom, this is it.  BedroomIsBoutique.com (pronounced bedroom eyes boutique) carries trendy and classic "Just Married" pieces suitable for brides of every age and style.  Brides and grooms can register can register online but they'll have to tell their friends as there's no e-mail notification function on the site.

August 15, 2011

Donation Registries

More modern couples are straying away from gifts and asking friends and family members to donate to their favorite non-profit organization, cause or charity.  Through the I DO Foundation, guests can donate directly to a couple's chosen charitable cause via a secure system.  Charities are grouped into six focus areas including health, environment, social justice, community development, education and children, you and families.  Information provided by Nuovo Bride.

August 13, 2011

What does a coin in the shoe mean (a wedding custom)?

Ancient custom  to appease Diana, goddess of chastity and unmarried maidens, so that the bride could lose her virginity and bear children.

August 12, 2011

Why Something Old - Something New?

Something old:  continuity
Something new:  optimism, hope
Something borrow:  happiness shared from a happily married couple
Something blue:  fidelity, love, purity
Lucky sixpence in shoe:  ensures a life of fortune.

August 11, 2011

Attended the monthly meeting of Weddings of Venice at the Mission Valley Country Club, 1851 Mission Valley Boulevard, Nokomis on Wednesday, August 10.  Our speaker was social networking expert, Kate DeSantis.  Our best booth contest winner from the June 5 bridal show, Dee Baker of DeeZiner Cakes & Pastries, was announced and awarded $50.  Our venue hostess was Stacy Brown, she treated us to mini crab cakes and miniature cream puffs.  YUM!  The next Weddings of Venice Bridal Show will take place on Sunday, June 10, 2012 at the Mission Valley Country Club.

August 6, 2011

How should we carry the wedding rings down the aisle?

Colin Cowie suggests . . if your dog is an essential part of your life then ask if it is permissible for he/she to be a member of the wedding party.

Though the exchange of wedding rings is not a tradition in a Greek wedding, having the rings brought out on an olive branch is a great way to put a modern spin on an old tradition.

If you are having a beach wedding, the rings can be brought in on a curved shell or one of the fingers of a starfish.

August 1, 2011

What is the origin of the Bride carrying flowers?

The use of flowers in the wedding celebration is as old as marriage itself.  nearly every type of blossom bears a symbolism that goes back for centuries.  Flowering quince was favored by the ancient Greeks who believed nurture the love between a Bride and Groom, while the Romans braided wreaths of marigolds and roses to guarantee love and longevity.  The bouquet symbolizes life, growth, and fertility.

July 30, 2011

Gift Card Registry

Asking directly for money can be extremely uncomfortable and is frowned upon by Dear Abby and Emily Post.  Happily, there's a new way around this delicate situation.  CardAvenue.com allows couples to register for gift cards from select stores and let friends know about their choices via E-mail.  It's a simple as 1-2-3 and doesn't require a purchase or setup and transaction fees.  Card Avenue also offers guests a resource for buying fulling-priced or discount gift cards.

July 26, 2011

Saving for a new home registry . .

You'll never lay an egg with HatchMyHouse.com.  The cash registry allows couples to put money towards a future home or perhaps just furniture and home improvements.

Per Nuovo Bride Magazine July 2011

July 22, 2011

What is "illustrative wedding photography"?

The illustrative style thinks in terms of design elements.  The photographer will place their subjects in settings with interesting composition and backgrounds.  Good lighting is very important.  Generally, the couple together with their bridal party, are encouraged to interact.  The results give a more spontaneous feel.  Illustrative wedding photography brings out the wedding photographer's artistic, creative and compositional skills.  Per wwwnuovobide.com

July 19, 2011

Why a Ringbearer?

This custom is typically American and unknown in Europe although he is the successor the the English page boy who still carries the Bride's train in formal weddings at Westminster.  Children have always been considered propitious in the wedding party, and in France they carried lighted tapers at the Bride's side.  Charles Frederick Worth, who dressed most of the queens of Europe from his house in Paris, is said to have originated the court train, suspended from the shoulders, for the wedding gown.  This gave the little train-bearer a definite job to do.  But alas, court trains went out of fashion as skirts grew shorter, so the Bride's little nephew was given the wedding ring to carry.

July 16, 2011

What is photojournalism?
 Rather than posing for your pictures (portraiture), the photographer will follow you throughout the day capturing events as they happen.  this has become a very popular style of wedding photography and is essentially a series of candid shots.  Wedding photojournalism is said to appeal to the Bride and Groom that are looking for a series of unique photographs to "tell the story of the day."

There are drawbacks, as there is usually no pre-planned "shot list."  The resulting images can be unpredictable.  it is a fact that some couples later regret not opting for the more traditional posed portraits in their wedding album.

July 11, 2011

Why Ushers or Groomsmen?

Back in the days of "marriage by capture" a young man often brought along some off his strong-minded friends to help fend off his ladylove's brothers.  These were the first Ushers or Groomsmen.

July 7, 2011

What does "soft focus" in photography mean?

A romantic dreamlike visual with pale lighting.  Photographers use a special lens to create such a mood.  You may want several shots taken in soft focus added to your wedding shot list.

June 29, 2011

What is Portraiture photography?

Portraiture is the most widely used style when photographing weddings.  This style is generally used for formal pictures where posting and precision are key.  There are benefits to taking this approach.  Traditional wedding photographers will follow a "shot list."  This means that all of the poses you have decided on in your planning are photographed.  There is little chance of missing something.  The disadvantage is that the photographer is almost like a "wedding official," by directing the wedding party and guess according to the "shot list."  You can get around this by having a designated person in charge of organizing guests for the photographer.  This will also help speed up the process and help get the party started.  From nuovobride.com

June 26, 2011

Why a bevy of bridesmaids?

In the old days of marriage by capture, a maiden was guarded by her family to prevent seizure, and in later centuries this little drama was enacted as sort of game at country weddings.  The bridegroom, coming for his bride, was confronted by a bevy of maidens all dressed exactly alike.  His part of the play was to detect his true love, "forsaking all others," and bear her away to church.  as recently as Victorian times, brides' maidens often wore white dresses and even short bridal veils, looking like brides themselves.  The best friend was designated first bridesmaid (or Maid of Honor).  The Maid of Honor and the Matron on Honor are modern designations in line with our small wedding parties of today.

June 21, 2011

Did you know that the "Sandals Royal Plantation" in Ocho Rios, Jamaica was named the # 1 Best New All-Inclusive Resorts?"
Sandals Resorts and Beaches Resorts information can be obtained via http://www.simpleseasideceremonies.com

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June 15, 2011

Attended a Weddings of Venice meeting last night, Wednesday, June 15, 2011 at the Best Western Plus Ambassador Suites Venice in Venice, FL.  Our hostess at the Best Western was Deborah Petty, who is also a Weddings of Venice Member. 

June 15, 2011

Just came back from a great weekend (June 11 - 12, 2011) of learning and networking with other Association of Bridal Consultant members from Florida, the Bahamas, and Georgia.

Elise Enloe, the Florida State Coordinator, presented "Let Your Business Blossom" at the Doral Golf Resort & Spa in Doral, Florida (near Miami).  On Sunday afternoon we were taken on "a grand tour" of the resort."
On a scale of one to ten, the Doral Golf Resort & Spa is an "11."

June 14, 2011

Thanks to all of the Brides, Groom, friends, and parents who attended the Weddings of Venice "That's Amore!" Bridal Show on June 5, 2011 at the Venetian Golf and River Club in North Venice, FL.

June 11, 2011

Would you marry a young woman who at 31 years old has never married BUT has been engaged seven times?

June 9, 2011

How did the tradition of wearing a white bridal gown begin?

White is the ceremonial symbol of purity and virtue and hence of maidenhood.  It has been so since Biblical times.

About 1820, white became popular for formal occasions, although pastels were in vogue until the end of the century.  When Queen Victoria popularized white at her own wedding in 1840, it became the official color for brides.

June 5, 2011

If you know someone that has proven to be forgetful or unreliable in the past then it is NOT a good idea to make this person an important part of your wedding WITHOUT checking on them.

True wedding story . .

The Bride's Uncle was asked to give her away.  The Bride's Uncle lives about one hundred miles from the ceremony city; and this man has worked every Saturday from 7AM to 330PM for the past twenty years.  In preparation for his niece's wedding he bought a new dark suit and took that Saturday off.  The day of the wedding has come, and Uncle Joe goes into work at his usual 645AM.  At 1130AM he sits down to lunch and his boss walks up to him and says, "Joe, what are you doing here?  Didn't you take a vacation day today?    I thought you were going away?"  At that point Joe was hit over the head with a hammer, he was doomed, he totally forgot about Mary's wedding which was scheduled for 1PM, and here he was one hundred miles away.  Someone else walked Mary down the aisle.

May 31, 2011

Looking for some inexpensive wines for your reception?

Try "Two Buck Chuck" from California vinter Charles Shaw at Trader Joe's.  Or try some of the wines from Lost Vineyards (available at select Whole Foods).

"Portuguese wines are without question the single best value in the marketplace right now, making them great for weddings where a lot of wine gets wasted." states Gary Vaynerchuk (a wine guru).  You'll find many $6 to $10 wines that know your socks off, both red and white."  From NuovoBride.com

May 30, 2011

Making your own wedding cupcakes?  Dress them up with edible pearls or sugar daisies from fancyflours.com OR sugar glitter from coolcupcakes.com

Just another way to personalize your wedding and/or save some money.

May 27, 2011

Create a custom 8" x 10" collage of your favorite get-together (engagement party, bridal shower or rehearsal dinner) for $4.99.  Upload digital photos at shutterfly.com, pick out a background, add a sentiment, and you've got a frame-worth remembrance of the good times.

May 25, 2011

"I am you; you are ME,
You are the waves; I am the ocean.
Know this and be free, be divine."
by Sri Sathya Sai Baba

May 22, 2011

Want to see a cute wedding cake?

Check out the "button candy" wedding cake at http://www.dognbird.com/.  Adorable!  Clever!

May 21, 2011

"Let your love be like the misty rains, coming softly, but flooding the river."

Malagasy Proverb

May 20, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom

What can we use to hide "an ugly area" of the reception hall?

Try any or all of the following . .

Ficus trees - poinsettias during the holiday season - ferns - green roping - gladiolas - grapevine - clusters of leaves - forsythia cuttings in the spring - long stem lilies - azaleas - magnolia branches - wisteria - honeysuckle - evergreen plants.  And if nothing else works, buy or rent some three paneled screens.

May 19, 2011

Saying "Thank You"

In a perfect world a Thank You note should be sent out seven to ten days after a pre-wedding event (engagement party, bridal shower, Jack and Jill shower, etc).

In a perfect world a Thank You note should be sent out seven to ten days after receiving the wedding gift if that gift was received before the wedding date.

In a perfect world a Thank You note should be sent out within thirty days of your wedding date for all of the wedding gifts received on your wedding day.

A personal "Thank You" should always be expressed to the giver BUT you still owe the giver a handwritten "Thank You."  A personal "Thank You" is only one half of the job.

A pre-printed "Thank You" note is better than not sending any note at all BUT a handwritten is the most appropriate method of saying "Thank You."

You should never mention the amount given if you received a check or cash as a gift.  Tell the giver what you intend to do with the money, even if that means putting it in a savings account that has a specific purpose.

Looking for some "Thank You" notes that can be used with a wallet size wedding photo?  Try the "Coupled Hearts Thank You Notes at  shop.getmarried.com

May 18, 2011

Looking for some great cupcakes for your reception?

sacredsweets.com
jencakes.com
zinermansbakehouse.com
vanillabakeshop.com
ninecakes.com
sugarcraft.com
sweetgrace.net
apeachinapeartree.com

Listed in the Fall 2010 copy of shop.getmarried.com

May 17, 2011

Looking for reception table number stands?

At shop.getmarried.com the tall stands are about $12 and the short stands are about $10.

May 16, 2011

A new you can be created at 2MYSHAPE . . . a complete line of stylish yet comfortable undergarments for both men and women.  These undergarments are designed to reshape the body to a desired shape and size.  These undergarments are made of lightweight fabric that allows the skin to breathe, while holding the redefined body shape.

For more information:    2MYSHAPE
                                    101 Alice Street
                                    Bridgeport, CT 06606
                                    203-683-7442
                                    WWW.ARDYSSLIFE.COM/2MYSHAPE

From the Fall 2010 issue of shop.getmarried.com
                                              

May 15, 2011

Looking for something "blue?"

Blue suede cowgirl boots (Carson Pull On) can be found at thefreycompany.com.

Found in the Fall 2010 issue of getmarried.com

May 12, 2011

Save your wedding dress with a specially developed formula of friendly bacteria and enzymes.  It actually "eats away" wine stains - all with nontoxic ingredients.

WineOff/bio-proresearch.com/home-auto-html.  $4.95

As seen in shop.getmarried.com  Fall 2010 issue.


I was once associated with a Bride who drank an orange soda enroute to the wedding ceremony.  The limousine went over a bump as she was drinking the soda.  The soda spilled all over the front of her dress.
Her future Mother-in-law, who paid for the professional photographer, was in the rear of the church as the Bride walked in.  The future Mother-in-law was furious!

May 10, 2011

Great idea from shop.getmarried.com . .

Pocket Wedding Planner  - this little bitty wedding planner organizes your life and fits in your purse.

Hip Hip Hooray, leave your three-ring binder at home!

Item costs $14.95  Fall 2010 issue of  "Get Married"

May 9, 2011

On more than one occasion I have seen Maid of Honors, bridesmaids and wedding guests walk in an area that is NOT conducive to wearing high heels.  Yes, the Bride may have seen the grass when she decided to have her outdoor ceremony or reception at this specific location BUT she never thought about what would happen when you wear high heels in that grassy area.

There is an item that can be put on the heel that will prevent you from getting stuck in a grassy or soft soil area.  It's called Sole Mates High Heeler.  Check out www.thesolemates.com.  Information obtained from shop.getmarried.com "smart fixes."

May 8, 2011

A Most Unusual Gift of Love

"Through all our years may you find
warmth and joy and peace of mind
in this hand and heart you have won
for my love for you has just begun."

This poem was written on a litho by Robert Sexton.  More information can be found at www.robertsexton.com.  From Yankee Magazine January-February 2010.

May 7, 2011

Getmarried.com recommended these blogs and so do I . .

lovemilkandhoney.com

postcardandpretties.blogspot.com

rocknrollbride.com  (check out the two vintage wedding photos!)

May 4, 2011

Weddings of Venice new Facepage page . .

http://facebook.com/weddingsofvenice

Thanks to Jim Casey for making this happen!

May 2, 2011

A Bride's Mother asked how the tradition of giving a Bride a bridal or wedding shower started.

This tradition evolved from Holland when a Father disapproved of his daughter's choice of a husband.  The villagers gathered to "shower" her with the dowry and gifts her Father refused to give her.

May 1, 2011

Just discovered "Cookies by Design."  Check out the beautifully decorated heart shaped cookies, wedding bell cookies, Bride and Groom cookies, and custom photo cookies. 

Looking for something "new and different" for a wedding thank you gift or a table favor?  There's lots of cute wedding ideas at http://www.centralfloridacookies.com.

April 28, 2011

A Bride and Groom received $5 in a wedding card.  At first they thought it was a joke, and then they read this note . .   "What can you do with $5?

You can buy a plastic watering can . . some acrylic paints for an arts and crafts project . . glass candle sticks . . a souvenir print of the Eiffel Tower . . buy some glass mason jars and fill them with jelly beans or cookies or cotton balls . . made lemonade with $5 worth of lemons . . lip gloss or lip balm . . a small plastic cosmetic bag for your purse . . a cotton scarf to dress up a plain jacket . . and a bang trim at the hairdressers.

April 27, 2011

Why is the wedding ring put on the third finger of the left hand?

The ancients believed that a special vein, which they called a "vena amoris" or vein of love, ran from the finger directly to the heart.  By putting on a fitted ring, the affections were bound in and could never flow out the finger tips.  Also, this finger - although not the smallest on the hand - is the weakest and most dependent on the others for help in lifting and holding.  It seemed to symbolize the young wife supported by the strength of her husband.  The ring finger has sometimes been on the left hand, sometimes on the right hand, according to country and custom.  Among English-speaking persons, it has been on the left since the edict of Edward VI in 1549.

April 26, 2011

Why a Wedding Band?

Wedding bands, symbolized eternal love by their lack of beginning or end, grew out of the ancient tradition of using circlets of grass to decorate a Bride's wrists and ankles.  Although not required to validate a marriage under a civil law, rings were required in the 16th century by the Council of Trent.  The circular shape symbolizes eternity.

April 24, 2011

As a couple about to be engaged or an engaged couple or newlyweds, I suggest that you become a member of Costco for the following reasons . .

You can buy engagement rings.

You can buy health insurance, it acts like a middle man to match members with the appropriate insurance company (ies).

Secure a mortgage.  You can save a substantial amount on lender fees from national lenders that have an agreement with Costco.

Wedding dress.  Kirstie Kelly will be selling six exclusive wedding gowns for about 40% off their retail price at trunk shows throughout the country.  The gowns will be ranging in price from $700 to $1400, ranging in sizes from 2 to 24.

Wedding paper goods and decorations.  Costco is selling everything from fresh flowers to printed wedding invitation kits.

Honeymoon or vacation.  By becoming a member of Costco Travel you can get some great rates on cruises, theme parks, rental cars, and hotels plus honeymoon packages.

Yes, buying a membership is definitely worth it!

April 23, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .
    
When are we legally married?

Response . .

When you say, "I do," you did.  The Certificate of Marriage goes straight from the hands of the Officiant/Clergy Man or Woman to the County Clerk's Office (either by mail or dropped off).  If you are having "second thoughts" about being married right after the ceremony there are no exceptions, no loopholes, and no grace period.  You, the Bride and Groom, have made a verbal legal contract during the ceremony,  and once the Officiant has declared you "wed" and the paperwork confirms that, you are "legally married."  Problems that occur after that are between you, your spouse, and the state.  The Officiant cannot "undo" what was already done (whether it was two hours ago or the previous day).

April 22, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .
               We gave an officiant a deposit check for $100 to officiate our wedding.  The check did not
                clear, it was our fault.  And now the officiant is telling us that we broke the contract and he will not
                conduct our ceremony.  Can he do that?

Response . .

                Giving someone a check that is insufficient is like not giving them any money at all.

April 20, 2011

Wondering what how much your wedding guests are going to spend on your wedding gift?

According to a recent poll . .

16% spend less than $50
35% spend $50 to $99
30% spend $100 to $199
19% spend $200 or more

Which means 51% of your wedding guests will give you a gift that costs less than $99.  Maybe you need a new set of friends?

April 19, 2011

The International Foods of Love . .

Truffles . . Chocolate Mousse . . Creme Brulee' . . and Chocolate Covered Strawberries.

Easy Choclate Covered Strawberries Recipe
Makes about 20

16 ounces of milk chocolate chips
2 tablespoons of shortening
1 pound of fresh strawberries, preferably medium to large size

Insert toothpicks into tops of strawberries.

In double boiler, melt chocolate and shortening, stirring occasionally until smooth.  holding strawberries by toothpicks, dip each one into chocolae mixture.

Turn strawberries upside down and insert toothpicks into styrofoam and let chocolate cool.

April 17, 2011

There are many Brides and Grooms who are fortunate to have "everything they need" so they ask their guests to donate to a charity in lieu of a purchased gift.  Here's some websites that may help you, the Bride and Groom, determine what cause or nonprofit organization you would like to support. 

Charity.com . . Easy to use listings and contact information for thousands of charity and nonprofit groups, updated daily.

Charitynavigator.org . . This site offers unbiased ratings and background information to help you learn about a charity before you contribute to it.  Also, includes a vast charity directory and top 10 lists.

Just recently I was associated with a Bride and Groom who made a donation to the burn unit of a hospital in lieu of table favors.  The donation was stated on the Ceremony Program and on the wedding gift table.

April 14, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . . Do we have to have a reception?

Response . .
A reception is not expected if your ceremony takes place in a Court House setting or in a private setting.
Your guests will expect some type of reception if you are getting married in a house of worship or some other type of formal setting.  A reception is more than a tray full of cheese and crackers, Italian wedding soup, a chicken dinner, and wedding cake with lots of icing . . it is  the Bride and Groom's opportunity to say "Thank You for coming to our wedding" to your friends and family members.

April 13, 2011

Attended the April 12, 2011 meeting of the Weddings of Venice networking group at the Manasota Beach Club in Englewood, FL.  Our group is preparing for a bridal show on June 5, 2011 at the Venetian Golf & River Club in North  Venice, FL.

April 8, 2011

Question of the week . .

What would yo do if one of your guests has asked you if they can being "some friends visiting from out of town" to your wedding.  And those friends total six more people.  How do you respond?

April 6, 2011

Question from a Bride . .

My friends and I would rather have a "Pajama Party" or "Girls Night In" than bachelorette party.
Could you give me some ideas or suggestions on what to do?

Response:  Have a pizza cook-off.  Create some teams.  Each team would bring their own ingredients to the party.  The hostess would provide the pizza dough (which can be purchased from local pizza shops or grocery stores).

Each person brings some "Hollywood gossip" from a magazine or news show or off the internet.

Bring some CDs that feature "the oldies but goodies" from the 50s and 60s or 70s.  Dance . . dance . . dance to the music!

Ask your guest to bring their favorite board games.  Break into teams.  The team with the most points at the end of the evening wins a prize.

Give each other manicures or pedicures.  Ask your guests to bring their favorite nail polish color.  The hostess would provide polish remover, nail files, etc.

Ask each person to bring their favorite DVD movie in a specific category.

April 1, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .
Do we have to invite an immediate family member to our wedding and reception who is a known trouble maker at family events?

Response:  YOU, the Bride and Groom, should NEVER invite anyone to your wedding (or any event) who will make you feel unhappy or uncomfortable or angry.  Would you invite a swarm of bees to a picnic?

March 29, 2011

Hosting a bridal shower?  Hosting an engagement party?  Hosting the rehearsal dinner at your home?
Do you need a hostess gift or a thank you gift?

Seven superior sips of wine for $12 or less . .

The envelope please . . "The Wine Trials of 2011" is out.  The annual brown bag blind tastings have yielded a list of the best wallet-friendly wines in every category.

Sparkling - J P Chenet Blac de Blancs Brut (from France $12)
Light White - Bogle Sauvignon Blanc (from California $9)
Heavy White - Yalumba Unwooded Chardonnay (from Australia $10)
Rose' - Lal rose' (from Turkey $10)
Light Red - Monte Antico (from Italy $12)
Heavy Red - Dona Paula Los Cardos Malbec (from Argentina $12)
Sweet/Aromatic - Dr LRiesling (from Germany $12)

From The Food Department at "readersdigest.com"  February 2011  Page 44

March 27, 2011

On Thursday, March 24, 2011, I attended a meeting of the Central Florida West division of the Association of Bridal Consultants at IKEA in Tampa, FL.  The meeting was entitled "It's Time for Spring Cleaning!"
Marie Sanders of Ready to Get Organized gave us tips on  how to spring clean our offices and prioritize our busy lives.

Marc25, 2011

For those Brides who were given "pearls" to wear on their wedding day . .

Pearl of Wisdom . .

No need to call the pros - cleaning your pearls (necklace or bracelet or earrings) is very easy to do at home.

Wipe them off with a dry cotton cloth after wearing them.  "If they become visibly dirty, dilute a teaspoon of Woolite in a quart of water.  Immerse your pearls for 10 to 15 seconds, dab them with a soft cotton cloth and lay them flat to dry," says Kathy Higginbotham, Silpada Designs' director of quality control. 

Store them in a cotton bag - never plastic - separate them from other jewelry.

To ensure that they stay lustrous, think outside the jewelry box.  Wearing them regularly will keep them polished, thanks to your body's natural oils.  Amanda Greene  Womans Day Magazine  April 1, 2010

March 21, 2011

Why a Wedding Band?

Wedding bands, symbolizing eternal love by their lack of beginning or end, grew out of the ancient tradition of using circlets of grass to decorate a Bride's wrists and ankles.  Although not required to validate marriage under a civil law, rings were required in the 16th century by the Council of Trent.  The circular shape symbolizes eternity.

March 13, 2011

HONEYSUCKLE - COLOR OF THE YEAR

Pantone, the international leader and trendsetter on color, announced in December 2010, that Pantone 18-2120 Honeysuckle is the "it" color for 2011.  Honeysuckle is a very energizing, dynamic, and engaging color that can't help but get the adrenaline going - - a good color to ward off the "blues!" says Leatrice Eiseman, executive director of the Pantone Color Institute.  And what does honeysuckle look like?  Similar to raspberry or azalea or hot pink.

From Wedding Planner Magazine  March/April 2011

March 9, 2011

Why are diamonds used as engagement rings?

The diamond was called the Venus stone by the ancients who compared its shining beauty with the planet Venus in the evening sky.  Like this goddess, who as dedicated to love, the diamond in time became associated with sweethearts, and its mysterious inner fire was likened to the equally mysterious fires of passion.  The Greeks called it "adamas" - eternal or unchanging, a declaration as to the depths of their emotions.

According to history, the diamond as an engagement ring began in 1477 with Maximilian of Austria and Mary Burgundy.  Max asked one of his councilors for advice in proposing to Mary.  The councilor told him to give her a diamond.  Max took the advice and proposed, slipping a diamond ring on her third finger.  Mary said, "Yes" and a tradition was born.

March 8, 2011

How did "being engaged" begin?
Before coinage, gold rings were circulated as currency.  By giving a gold ring to his Bride, a man showed he trusted her with his property.  Under Roman law, the ring was a sign of security, protecting the interests of the Bride-to-be.  In Elizabethan times, an interlocking set of three rings was used and worn during the engagement period by the Bride, the Groom, and the witness at the wedding.  The three rings would be placed on the Bride's finger during the wedding ceremony.  Diamond rings became popular in the 19th century.

March 5, 2011

The top twenty destination wedding locations are . .

Hawaii - rated Number 1 for several years
Las Vegas - has the greatest variety of hotels and attractions plus the best values for your $$$$
Jamaica
Bahamas
Paris, France
The Wine Country of California / Napa Valley
Mexico
Aruba
Orlando, FL
Virgin Islands
Antigua
Great Britain
Cayman Islands
Bermuda
Barbados
Mediterranean Sea Resorts
Italy
South Pacific - Fiji and Tahiti
Greece
Spain

Disney World is the Number 1 honeymoon destination.

More than one hundred weddings are performed in Bermuda every month.

Italy is one of the most accommodating European countries for NON-RESIDENT weddings.

The majority of destination weddings cost between $1000 and $5500.  Why?  Because it usually involves less than twenty people (and many times it is just the Bride and Groom).

March 3, 2011

Mark your calendars for the Weddings of Venice June 5, 2011 Bridal Show!
Our theme:  That's Amore! 
Time:  12 Noon to 3PM
Location:  The Venetian Golf & River Club, 502 Veneto Boulevard, North Venice, FL

$1000 Cash Prize
Lots of Door Prizes
Bridal Fashions
Entertainment
Complimentary Signature Cocktail
Complimentary On site Engagement Photo by Apple Video and Photography Studio
                                                                     Charlie Coury   941-426-0093
Donations to the Brides Against Breast Cancer fund can be made at the door.

February 24, 2011

Question of the week . .

If a Disc Jockey offered to pay for the cost of  printing of your Ceremony Programs in exchange for advertising his/her business on the back of that Ceremony Programs and putting out business cards at your reception would you accept their offer?  The Ceremony Programs are going to cost about $135.

February 23, 2011

Question of the week . .

Do you know of a Bride and Groom who returned their wedding registry gifts in lieu of cash?  And did that bother you that the gifts were "cashed in"?

February 16, 2011

Attended a Weddings of Venice meeting on Tuesday, February 8 at the lovely Jacaranda West Country Club in Venice.  Attended a Wake Up Venice/Chamber of Commerce meeting this morning at Bogey's Restaurant.  Bogey's is well known for their pizzas so they served several "breakfast" pizzas to the Chamber members.

February 7, 2011

An engraved inscription gracing the inside of a wedding band can be a powerful declaration of hope and love, whether it's simply initials and the wedding date or a few carefully chosen and cherished words.  the inscription can be a classic quote, a word, phrase or nickname that only has meaning for the couple, making the ring a truly unique symbol of love. 

Here is a collection on inscriptions from ancient to modern, all with timeless appeal . .
From classical times  "Semper amemus"   (Our love is forever)
From Medieval quotes "Aute ne veux"   (I think of none other)
From the 17th and 18th Centuries "You and I will lovers die"
Modern phrases "Love is eternal"

February 3, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .

Can a couple of different faiths, one being Jewish, sign a Ketubah?

Response . .

I have married several couples of different faiths.  In the past I have married a Christian Bride and a Jewish Groom, the Groom asked to have a "breaking of the glass" ceremony at the end of the wedding but no Ketubah (a marriage contract or a prenuptial agreement) was signed.  I also married a Jewish Bride and a Christian Groom who had the Bride's brother read the Ketubah during the ceremony; and then the document was signed after the Bride and Groom were pronounced "Man and Wife."  Both the Bride's family and the Groom's family plus their wedding attendants witnessed the Bride and Groom signing the document.

I was told recently by another wedding professional, "When you are not married by a Rabbi, you are making up your own rules."

February 1, 2011

Making Memories Breast Cancer Foundation/Brides Against Breast Cancer is currently accepting wedding gowns 2006 or newer.  Gowns need to be shipped to the Making Memories Headquarters, located at 4252 SE International Way, Suite J, Milwaukie, OR 97222.

Please visit www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org to download the donation form and for further instructions on how to donate your gowns.

Each year, the Making Memories Breast Cancer Foundation receives thousands of wedding gowns from various manufacturers, designers, retailers, and individuals for the Brides Against Breast Cancer Nationwide Tour of Gowns, making it the organization's primary fundraising activity.

January 30, 2011

Question from a Bride and Groom . .

What are some Irish traditions or customs that we can incorporate into our March wedding?

Answer . .

The Bride and Groom are showered with flower petals for good luck.

The claddagh (wedding ring) is fashioned with two hands holding a heart with a crown above; when the hands are worn facing in, the Bride is married.

Dances at the reception include the Groom in a "jaunting car" (chair) to present him to the wedding guests as a married man.

January 29, 2011

Brides Against Breast Cancer Nationwide Tour of Gown Returns to Tampa, FL March 3 thorough March 5 at the Howard Johnson Plaza Hotel.

When:        VIP Night  $50 Admission for Bride and One Guest
                  Thursday, March 3 from 6PM - 9PM

                   General Sale - Free Admission
                   Friday, March 4 from 10AM - 8PM
                   Saturday, March 5 from 10AM - 6PM

Where:       Howard Johnson Plaza Hotel
                  111 West Fortune Street
                  Tampa, FL   33602

The charity wedding gown sale will feature hundreds of beautiful wedding gowns donated by designers, retailers, and manufacturers and individuals offered at 35-75% off.  On site contacts are Barbara Raskin at 843-901-0402 OR Tammy Waterman, Tampa Tour Coordinator at 727-343-0800.  Brides who are already married and want to get involved are encouraged to donate their wedding gowns at the sale.  For more information about the tour and to pre-register, please visit http://www.bridesagainstbreastcancer.org/

PLEASE NOTE;  This event has been POSTPONED per an E-mail on January 28, 2011.

The wedding gown sale will be postponed until the fall.  Brides who have pre-registered will be notified by E-mail with details per Erin Scharf,  Public Relations Manager, Making Memories Breast Cancer Foundation.  Telephone 503-491-8091