Did you just get engaged?
Once you and your partner decide when you want to get married the next then you want to discuss is where do you want your ceremony and where do you want your reception.
Do you want your ceremony and/or your reception in one of your home towns?
Do you want your ceremony and/or your reception at a resort?
Do you want your ceremony and/or reception at the location where you met?
Do you want your ceremony and/or your reception far, far away?
And then you have to consider how your decision will impact your family members and friends.